Men knew him not, why insist? When you point out his mistake when, why he hardened their neck down? Many women do not understand this.
About face is the nature of man, if constantly accused him of errors or push him on how you want to do, will let his pride, he will drift away from you. Trying to catch his heart, the most important thing is to create a "let him call the shots" atmosphere, leads him to willingly accomplish your purpose, he will love you, caring for you.
Men are keen to control, like the dominant animal. No men littered with pride. Connection to the man's face and pride, denied its ideas and values, but rather was declared war on men, and men decorum.
Men fear, hate, is aggressive and likes to correct errors, controls the East lion (swearing is Jue on bad behavior, swear words are mostly built on the insulting premise of women/organ, swearing woman will make people hate and fear).
If women used to said to the man, "you are a man", "you can't even do this kind of thing, are men? "" I told you not long ago? "" This thing obviously is that you are right "," this thing better to do it my way "," what are you trying to do? "," Why don't you ...? "Such aggressive or accusing Word when men were forced out, afraid that it will only distance, ran. Correcting the errors of men, strongly in favour of their point of view (right) of words could cause serious damage to the male ego. Even if you are completely right, men are feeling of self-esteem, humiliation, trampling, listen to what you want to say, also draws revulsion and disgust.
Let the person he felt he was finally In fact, the secret to controlling no longer controls, pressure, blamed for men to express ideas, nor withheld money, constraint, control the actions of men, but "create for men are the masters feeling."
For example, faulty electrical appliances in the home, even if you know how to fix, want deliberately playing dumb, stupid and pretend not to understand, to man the chance, his electrical repairs, to show you his abilities. Out on a date, restaurants or choose break leading right to the men of the place, timely make man heroic spirit, care, protect women's opportunities, and gave him the sense of ownership of, when the man came naturally to protect a woman's heart, the best way to a man's heart.
The past decades, feminism the pursuit of gender equality, but fall into the pursuit of equality of involvement with myth, believes that only when a woman like a man, do things that man can do, is called true equality. Therefore, the woman who can do guy things, known as superwoman, recognized by the community as successful, even at the cost of abandoning one's own femininity. In other words, feminism's efforts over the years, is to turn a woman into a man. It is no wonder that more gender-equal society, marriage rates are lower.
Equality between the sexes, be established for denying women, female masculinity, but full recognition based on innate are different from men and women, in conditions of equality, mutual benefit and mutual respect, Development Director, no pressure, exploitation of either of the sexes in order to establish true equality of men and women develop.
Real relationships of equality and reciprocity, women respect men, man can be to women.
For an alternative teaching guided by tone
Perhaps the women will say, so, not what I had by the man, his mind is able to implement yet? In fact, anyone who knows "guidance rather than teach" women can easily let a man willing to complete your objective. Due to the sense of leading man preferences control global, takes pride and self-esteem, do not like to be disproved, so hate on the next guidance, however, cannot resist the persuasive guidance.
Men through conquest, control the world, dedicated to women to women and good in the way of the world. Therefore, anyone who knows "motherhood", through subtly Guide, suggests that resonate with men for your thoughts, opinions, and agree. Just let the man recognized your needs/preferences, needs/preferences as your own needs/preferences, men naturally will choose the results you want.
For example, dates to get Italy cuisine, directly tells the boys you like Italy cuisine than on a date when you talk about Italy food benefits (health, good food, romantic and so on), talk about your favorite Italy restaurants made the boys ' identity, believe male when choosing a restaurant, will you feel elated and select Italy restaurant.
Rock with water As had been said, men care about face, especially in front of a woman. In fact, he doesn't mind letting you call the shots, but, on the surface, you have to show feelings was conquered by him, obey him, so that he got to meet, you don't mind letting you call the shots. It was renamed, I respect your feelings to do. Actually, things are as you want them in that direction.
This is what we said with softness. And man's shadow is a very silly Act. Might not meet the objective not to say, will also make his scars. Appropriate and good, and then they all take a step back and get things off to a room for rotating and communicating skills. The other hand, it can be avoided, and he got very stiff. You know, when things when thawed, following trends may be beyond our control.
Men are stupid, only care about dignity and self-esteem, not the actual outcome in mind, as long as the face to the men, men willing to go make a woman winning stardom. Don't deny, refute the man and, if necessary, face towel, keep the dignity of man, but for you to win more victories. Focused on achieving their goals, rather than a process, as long as the actual bones take a dominant as well, may not be required in the form to win.
Two people together, inevitable that the contradictions and quarrels. How to better handle? Let him face, give you so dignified, so exactly what they need, and as you like it. Source: Pacific women's network
